You might feel it’s impossible to gain weight with IBS symptoms thwarting your efforts. If you’ve been on strict elimination diets, or missing meals due to your sensitive digestion you may have lost weight without intending to.
Unexpected, or undesired weight loss can be more prevalent with IBS-D, people who have a diarrhoea predominant type of IBS, because the transit time of food doesn’t allow for proper absorption of food.
How do you know if you need to gain weight with IBS?
Underweight is considered a BMI of less than 18.5. Your BMI is adjusted for height and gender, but it does not take into account muscle mass, so it’s important to look at body composition as well as the BMI score.
Muscle weighs more than fat, so consider whether you’re a healthy BMI, but with a very low body fat.
If you’re underweight it can lead to problems with your immune health, and can put you at greater risk of fertility issues, infections, osteoporosis and age related muscle wasting (sarcopenia). Being underweight seems to be more of an issue for men than women.
Is your weight loss unexplained?
if you’ve recently lost weight without meaning to, especially if it’s been rapid, it’s important to get checked over by a doctor.
Think about how much weight you’ve lost, and in what time period. A significant weight loss over a shorter time period may be of more concern.
Weight loss could be related to something else, such as Inflammatory Bowel Disease, Coeliac Disease, an overactive thyroid, or cancer so speak to your GP or gastroenterologist.
Get your digestion sorted
If you are able to resolve some of the ongoing digestive issues, you may find it easier to absorb more nutrients from your food. Work with a registered, qualified nutritional therapist to identify the root causes of your digestive symptoms. Contact me for a quick chat about my nutrition packages to see how I can help you.

How to gain weight
Ultimately you need to eat more calories than you burn every day. It’s important to do that slowly and using healthy foods that support your body.
You may feel nervous about eating different foods, or more food in total because you’ve been so used to restricting your diet. This is understandable because you’ve been trying to find a way to manage your symptoms, and you may need to work on your emotional approach to food as part of gaining weight.
A counsellor or therapist training in disordered eating may be useful to you if this resonates with you.
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1. Regular meal times
Aim to eat regularly through the day, and don’t miss meals. When you eat in an erratic pattern you may end up stressing your digestion even more.
Skipping meals may lead to more weight loss, or becoming deficient in certain nutrients.
2. Small frequent meals can help weight gain with IBS
If you fear stomach cramping, or pains because you need to eat more food, then try to break it down into smaller meals.
Extra meals don’t need to mean unhealthy snack food choices. Choose foods that add key nutrients like healthy fats, fibre and protein to your diet.
You may find it helpful to stick to low FODMAP foods when trying new foods, but don’t rely on this as each person is so different.

Increase your fats to gain weight
Fats contain 9 calories per gram, compared to 4 calories for protein and carbs. This means you can opt for high fat foods to increase your overall calorie intake. Some people will struggle with fat digestion so build up slowly to see where your tolerance lies for oils and fats.
If you can manage lactose containing foods, include full fat milk, eat hard cheeses. You can even play around with adding cream to your diet.
Healthy plant based fats are avocados, nuts, seeds, coconut oil, olives.
But what about FODMAPS?
Well not everyone reacts to every kind of fermentable, starch, and our tolerance to certain foods can increase over time. So test out how you get on with small amounts of avocado, or nuts and build up from there.
Oily fish are also a healthy source of calories.
Increase the protein
Protein is a building block for muscles, so it’s important to eat enough every day. In order to gain weight it’s estimated you need around 1.5-2kg of protein a day for every kilo of body weight. So if you’re 60kg you could need to eat up to 100g of protein. That is a large amount of protein every day so you’ll need to break it down and think about each meal.
- Consider a protein shake if you struggle to eat enough food – you can get vegan protein powders, or whey based shakes. Add these to your diet on top of food.
Protein sources are chicken, fish, seafood, eggs, nuts and nut butters, seeds, tofu, pulses and beans.
Improve your appetite
Take time to focus on your meals so you’re relaxed and ready to digest a meal.
Zinc deficiency may cause a loss of appetite so if you never feel hungry consider if this could be a factor for you. Zinc is found in meat, fish, whole grains like brown rice, wheat and nuts and food sources are best.
Don’t drink at mealtimes
Liquid can displace space for food so glugging down lots of drink at each mealtime might be making you eat less than you need.
Get quality sleep
Being sleep deprived can interfere with our body’s repair processes.
- We build muscle overnight whilst resting.
- Anxiety can be worse when we’re tired, so aiming for 8 hours of sleep is important when you’re starting to change your IBS diet.
- Gut symptoms may be worse when you’re tired, including experiencing more pain.
If you have been struggling to gain weight for a while and would like some targetted help from me, an IBS nutritionist, please email about setting up a discovery call so we can chat about what you need.

Hi I'm Anna Mapson, registered Nutritional Therapist.
I help people with IBS and SIBO get control of unpredictable gut symptoms to find long term relief from painful and embarrassing IBS without restrictive dieting.
I can help you to:
- understand your digestion better, so you recognise your triggers
- eat a well balanced diet, with tasty meals that are simple to prepare
- develop better digestion and more energy
Find more about my 3 month 1:1 Gut Reset programme
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Hi I’m a male with bad generalised anxiety and Ibs have had endoscopy and colonoscopy about 5 years ago diagnosed with Ibs and gerd recently having incredible stres in my life brought on bad panic attack ending up in hospital multiple tests and blood work were clear but for past 6 weeks have had bad generalised anxiety lost 27 pounds in 6 weeks from 278 to 251. No appetite at all sometimes 4-7 soft bowel movements per day any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks
Hi Jim
Sorry to hear what a tough time you’ve been having, this sounds really difficult. Would you like to set up a call with me to talk about your digestion and the gut brain connection, we could then decide whether it’s a good fit for you to work with me? You can book a time in my diary here – www.calendly.com/annamapson/30min if you are interested in talking about working on your diet with me.
Having same issues with Jim Tomeo, anxiety with eating, weight loss(went from 64kg to 59kg now) I can feel how much my body lacks nutrients. I need help but I’m from Nigeria.
Hi Austin, I can work with clients all over the world, so as long as we can sort out the timezones for calls it’s not a problem as I work online. If you’d like to have a chat about working with me please book in a call and I can answer any questions about how I work, and also confirm that it’s possible for me to help you. You can book a discovery call here: www.calendly.com/annamapson/30min/
I have been struggling with bloating, gas and discomfort for the last month. Lost 6 pounds in a month. Scared to eat because I don’t want to experience pain. General blood work done and noting alarming. Abdomen ultra sound good noting alarming. Waiting to see a GI doctor but in the meantime I don’t want to loose more weight. Can’t live off of soup anymore.
Oh dear Heidi this sounds terrible for you, I hope you get some support from your doctor soon. If they say ‘it’s just IBS’ then please let me know if you’d like some help with managing symptoms through food and lifestyle. Have you tried the low FODMAP diet? This doesn’t have to be low calorie and you can gain weight in this way? I work with people over 3 months to establish a diet that works for you, to resolve symptoms like this, on the Gut Reset, take a look here, and book in to speak to me first if you’re interested. https://www.goodnessme-nutrition.com/consultations/